DemurePrincess
Demure by name! 😉 Demure by nature! (Not!)
The way things are these days, a normal greeting will be cancelled, and we'll then go full *, by then condoning something like bum sniffing...because "words hurt."
However, being old school. I believe it is better to ask, than just proceed without thought or hesitation (I think there's still laws about that sort of thing )