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Brilliant, two pieces of opposing anecdotal evidence. Guess that settles it.So have I and this is ridiculous.
Sydney is by far away more expensive in every facet.
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Brilliant, two pieces of opposing anecdotal evidence. Guess that settles it.So have I and this is ridiculous.
Sydney is by far away more expensive in every facet.
I hear youI live in regions.
It's possible to live comfortably on from 40k onwards, if you are single with no dependents.
But there's a lot of people in industries that earn 120+. They have the potential the retire multimillionaires after the low cost of living is taken in to account. Many actually can afford to have a house locally and a mortgage in the city.
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Again, I understand the sentiment but everyone's circumstances are differentpartly related/tangential to this discussion'
once the kids move out of home (probably still 7-10 years away), i will have no hesitation renting this place out to a large family (as its like 5 beds+office + 2 living areas and decks as well) and rent elsewhere for half the cost of what i will receive in rent. i certainly wont be like many boomers and older generations who feel nostalgic and wont move out of the family home, and they stay there a couple or sometimes 1 person in a massive house
then i can work part time as the other lost salary will be made up from rent differential.
yeh i can see why people want to stay close to supports, but take my family in perth - my folks still live in the large 2 story house just the two of them and in their 70s. their remaining relatives are indeed close by (surrounding streets and suburbs) but there are also townhouses on their street available to rent - they could rent out their place for a tidy profit over renting a 2 bedroom townhouse literally a 5 min walk away.Again, I understand the sentiment but everyone's circumstances are different
Maybe I'm getting mixed up as I recall you mentioning that you citing an interstate move the reason for your change in club (from West Coast to Gold Coast)
But if that's you, I hear you. I think the first move is always the trickiest
I've moved across the country 3 times in the last 3 years and the first move was definitely the toughest
That all said, as much as I love Perth , I still wouldn't feel tied to there/feel the pull to return eventually if my parents weren't there . I'm an only child too.
So in summary I see where you're coming from but I can also see why some boomers don't want to move away from their supports either
Yeah, I see what you mean there ^yeh i can see why people want to stay close to supports, but take my family in perth - my folks still live in the large 2 story house just the two of them and in their 70s. their remaining relatives are indeed close by (surrounding streets and suburbs) but there are also townhouses on their street available to rent - they could rent out their place for a tidy profit over renting a 2 bedroom townhouse literally a 5 min walk away.
same as their siblings all in 60s and 70s and 80s.
Having this discussion with the in laws at the moment.partly related/tangential to this discussion'
once the kids move out of home (probably still 7-10 years away), i will have no hesitation renting this place out to a large family (as its like 5 beds+office + 2 living areas and decks as well) and rent elsewhere for half the cost of what i will receive in rent. i certainly wont be like many boomers and older generations who feel nostalgic and wont move out of the family home, and they stay there a couple or sometimes 1 person in a massive house
then i can work part time as the other lost salary will be made up from rent differential.
I hear you
That said, even some regional/rural areas have gone up.
eg I regret not buying in Bendigo (Kangaroo Flat more specifically) in 2020 instead of renting (I was only ever going to be there for a year)
So while I agree with the sentiment, not everyone works in industries that allows them to work in or from a regional location
Having said that, I would rather live in Bendigo (or Bunbury from a WA perspective) than many outer suburban areas of the city if it was a choice between the two and other factors (like distance from family) being equal.
When it comes to older generations, I don't know about that. The older generations just used to go and extend and rebuild their homes whenever they felt like it, really made things their own, in the day before excessive red tape and regulations. They were not just custodians. The sense of ownership and belonging would be greater.Having this discussion with the in laws at the moment.
Safe to say i fully intend to rent or sell my current home and downsize/tree change at that time, a house is a house man, youre only a custodian of it for a time.
I hear you
That said, even some regional/rural areas have gone up.
eg I regret not buying in Bendigo (Kangaroo Flat more specifically) in 2020 instead of renting (I was only ever going to be there for a year)
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They still die and leave it behind don’t they… I have an extreme sense of pride in my home, I’d love to one day have the money to leave it to my kids but at the end of the day it’s bricks and mortar.When it comes to older generations, I don't know about that. The older generations just used to go and extend and rebuild their homes whenever they felt like it, really made things their own, in the day before excessive red tape and regulations. They were not just custodians. The sense of ownership and belonging would be greater.
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I dunno. My grandparents lived in the same house for 50+years and my parents still live in the first home they bought 50 years ago.. and I think there is something pretty special about a family having those kind of roots.. yes it is "just bricks and mortar" but they can be so much more than that. My parents have talked about selling and down-sizing but I think it is more their children (me and my siblings) who want them to stay as though we are all middle-aged or approaching it, it is still 'home' in many ways.. maybe that is the difference between a house and a home, or maybe I am overly sentimental.They still die and leave it behind don’t they… I have an extreme sense of pride in my home, I’d love to one day have the money to leave it to my kids but at the end of the day it’s bricks and mortar.
Personally I think the connection is much more about the community you’re a part of (and for some build) than the home.I dunno. My grandparents lived in the same house for 50+years and my parents still live in the first home they bought 50 years ago.. and I think there is something pretty special about a family having those kind of roots.. yes it is "just bricks and mortar" but they can be so much more than that. My parents have talked about selling and down-sizing but I think it is more their children (me and my siblings) who want them to stay as though we are all middle-aged or approaching it, it is still 'home' in many ways.. maybe that is the difference between a house and a home, or maybe I am overly sentimental.
The cycle according to whom? Real estate agents? Advertising executives?but the cycle is “meant to” go
- shitty small apartment or share house in your late teens early 20s
- townhouse or larger nicer apartment in your mid to late 20s
- family home in your early 30s
- tree/sea change/apartment in your retirement
Did you read the whole post or just the bit you quoted?The cycle according to whom? Real estate agents? Advertising executives?
I dont understand the idea that people living in the same house for 50+ years are the cause of the housing crisis. Broken systems and the powers that be love to focus the blame at individuals though, and as a society we fall for it every time. Hence the current trends of 'boomer bashing', paper straws and carbon-footprint..
Ah yes.. "according to the the cycle of life in the western world".. I couldn't have said it better myself!According to the cycle of life in the western world. What need does a family of two older adults have for a family home of for 6? I’m not for a second suggesting that’s the only way to live but it is the expectation for the housing market. Buy, rent, camp, have kids, don’t have kids, have 4000 cats if you like, but the housing market was and is still established to have a home commensurate to needs in terms of living space and access to amenities (even though most people are now totally priced out of that).
I didn’t say they were the cause but it’s naive to suggest it’s not contributing.
If every older Australian just held onto their home then the only way the nex gen gets a home is through death (and then your ****ed if you have a sibling or two) or moving further and further out.
It’s not the only cause, it’s not even the most prevalent cause buts it’s absolutely a part of it.
Again, and I can’t stress this enough, if you bought a house, made it your home and never ever wanna sell it or move you have absolutely earned that right, do with your home as you wish, not I nor anyone else can tell you otherwise, but, you’ll still only ever be a custodian of that house during your years living there. Both those things are absolutely true.