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As has been pointed out before in this thread, everyone is different. Some people are blessed with a lot of mental resilience and when faced with adversity, they cope best. Others aren't so lucky. Even if someone has mental fortitude in abundence, the onset of mental illness and depression changes everything.I went to school with a girl who found her dad hanging when she was 7, her brother die of cancer when he was 10, and lost her mum in a road track accident and was the oldest and had to identify the body. she likes the odd pinga and beer but is on 45k at CBH and doesn't piss and moan. we all face adversity. it's not grounds for depression ffs. like death and suffering is part of the human condition.
How do you fight and cope when mentally, all the tools you've used in the past aren't there anymore? It's like trying to fight with your hands tied and your legs bound. That mother@#$%^& kicks the shit out of you every day. If you've never been through it, it's impossible to fully understand.